When it comes to buying a baby gate, it’s easier to find the ones parents have sworn off for good than get actual recommendations (“By the time my kid outgrew it, I wanted to take a baseball bat to it, Office Space–style.”). All of the options seem so similar—an eyesore reminiscent of jail cell bars designed to keep your child from whatever danger lurks on the other side of it—that you’re tempted to settle for whatever seems least frustrating to use. But it doesn’t have to be that way.
We polled moms all over the U.S., then cross-referenced their picks with reviews online, to uncover the best baby gates: ones that won’t take you all afternoon to install; that stay put, even when your toddler thrashes at the gate; that you and anyone over 18 can open easily (but your 2-year-old can’t). Here are the ones that made the cut.