In general, it isn’t until age five or older that kids start getting on board with showering and Dr. Playforth tells us that most kids still need some supervision until age 7 or 8, at which point “many are able to take on some of the burden of bathtime on their own, depending on their maturity and how much you trust them.” After age 8, kids typically can (and might prefer to) manage on their own.
That said, kids who can shower independently might still be nudged to do so—you know, instead of playing Minecraft all afternoon instead. So how often should elementary school kids soap up? Per the expert, most kids in this age group should bathe or shower at minimum twice per week, “and particularly if they have been swimming, using sunscreen or bug repellant, or if they are overtly dirty or sweaty.”
It’s worth noting, though, that there are some situations in which more frequent showering may be called for. According to Dr. Playforth, children with eczema often benefit from daily showers with hypoallergenic soap, followed by a thick application of moisturizer; additionally, children with environmental or pollen allergies who have spent time outdoors should shower more frequently, lest they risk ongoing exposure by tracking the offending allergen inside with them. If you think your child falls into either of those categories, talk to your pediatrician to find out how more frequent showering might improve their symptoms.