Mental health awareness isn’t just on the rise, it’s everywhere. Anyone who’s anyone is in talk therapy. And even if you’re not in talk therapy, you’re probably familiar with an Instagram therapist or two. This peak saturation has its benefits, like destigmatizing mental health conditions. But it also has its traps, like garbling the definitions of words like “gaslighting” and “trauma bonding” to the point that they’ve lost their meaning.
Narcissism is another buzzword in this sphere. Narcissistic Personality Disorder affects less than 1 percent of the population, yet somehow, it seems that everyone has a narcissist (or several) in their lives. Though many of these so-called narcissists don’t act like a character on Succession or have a full-blown diagnosed personality disorder, they definitely have some narcissistic traits. That grating combination of self-obsession and total insecurity makes for energy vampires who can really suck the life out of anyone who dares get close to them. And there are some of us who are unfortunately more likely to attract this deadly combination than others. Here are the two signs who are most likely to get themselves all wrapped up in someone else’s myopic world.