Could the Olive Theory Determine If Your Relationship Is Built to Last?

Here’s where it gets tricky. [Spoiler alert incoming for a show that ended more than ten years ago.] Eventually, Barney (Neil Patrick Harris) reveals to Ted that Marshall doesn’t actually hate olives; he pretends to hate them because he knows Lily loves them, so any time there are olives on his plate he gives them to her. The olive theory, then, is more about one person in a couple giving up something they love because they want their partner to be happy. (Note: It’s very clear from TikTok that many users haven’t done this level of research, and stick to the initial definition of the theory, but who am I to judge leaning into a cute trend?)

Regardless of how you interpret the olive theory, here's the bottom line: This is a fun, albeit unscientific, way to measure compatibility—don’t put too much stock into whether you and your partner are doomed because you would both sell your souls to the devil for a dirty vodka martini with no fewer than three blue cheese olives. (Fight someone else on this, it’s a combination you can pry out of my cold, dead hands.)