I’ll give you a hint: Refrain from: “When I was your age…” Why? Because you may as well be discussing paleoethics or future tripping. Every aspect of the modern kid’s life is so specific to this time.
As a mom of a college-age young man who is applying to college (he’s an 18-year-old who is still catching up from pandemic-induced scholastic and social challenges), the lived experiences I have had are not so helpful to him. I didn’t grow up with AI helping me craft essays (a mixed blessing, believe me) or being exposed to scary programming. I didn’t grow up in fear of not mastering the auramaxxing teen trend or in a world where economic disaster was chomping through the middle class like Ms. Pac Man. (See even my video games were 2-D, not metaverse-realistic).
One life lesson I can share with him and to all kids starting out in college (and this applies to attenuated apprenticeship programs, too): It’s a marathon not a sprint.
This messaging is important because so many kids seem like they’re front-loading all the economic and social pressures, without knowing that they are going to need stamina, time and luck to make college work for them. The economics alone bear this out—since college graduates typically earn 86 percent more than persons with only a high school degree, it makes sense that once you take that student loan money, you had better get that piece of paper saying you graduated. (Because that piece of paper will allow you to get a high-enough paying job to pay back the loan.) However, 57 percent of students who take on debt don’t graduate, and the amount of college loan debt only grows for people who don’t graduate.