It’s a struggle that every parent has to deal with—there simply isn’t enough time in the day to get everything done. And while you’re well aware that a little self-care will help you be a better mom (and overall person), who actually has time for yoga when you’re shuffling kids to birthday parties and cleaning crayon marks off the walls? According to Jamie Glowacki, author of Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler, there’s a solution and it’s one that has given her three more hours each day. It’s based around the Pareto principle.
It’s pretty likely that you’re already familiar with this concept. The general idea of the Pareto principle is this: 80 percent of the effects come from 20 percent of the causes. The theory originated from the work of Italian economist Vilfredo Pareto, but it can be applied across a range of fields. In a garden, for example, 20 percent of the plants will produce 80 percent of the produce. Or in software, fixing 20 percent of the reported bugs eliminates 80 percent of the errors. (You get the idea.)
How does this apply to parenting? Well, it all comes down to time management. Translation? Twenty percent of how you spend your time is giving you 80 percent of your outcomes. (Meaning that the majority of how you spend your time is, well, not giving you much of anything.) So all you need to do is figure out what you’re super effective at and what your time drains are. That’s not exactly an easy feat, but Glowacki has a six-step method to help you break it down.