In his book The 5 Love Languages, marriage counselor and author Gary Chapman argues that everybody communicates love in one of five ways. So the key to any romantic partnership is being able to speak your partner’s love language. But do you even know what yours is? Find out…
• A PureWow Quiz •
Everyone Has a Love Language: What's Yours?
1.
you Feel The Most Secure With Your Partner When…
You’re doing things—anything—together
You’re texting constantly throughout the day
They’re telling you how awesome you are
You’re cuddling
You’re stressed out and they step in to help
They surprise you with something you’ve wanted
2.
The Last Argument You Had With Your Partner Was Over…
The dishes
PDA (You'd like more of it)
Their smartphone addiction
Forgetting to get you an anniversary present
Their reaction to something you said
Your sex life
3.
The One Word Your Partner Would Describe You As Is…
Communicative
Present
Affectionate
Giving
Selfless
Considerate
4.
Pick A Couple:
Monica and Quincy from Love & Basketball
Kathleen Kelly and Joe Fox in You’ve Got Mail
María Elena, Cristina and Juan from Vicky Cristina Barcelona
Elio and Oliver from Call Me By Your Name
Rachel and Nick from Crazy Rich Asians
Nic and Jules from The Kids Are Alright
5.
It’s Your Birthday. What Do You Want From Your Partner?
A hotel room
Flowers with a note (read: minimum a paragraph or two)
The entire house cleaned with a romantic dinner on the table
A big awesome gift, or bust
Honestly, just a really nice dinner out sans any iPhone check-ins
A massage