When I first moved cross-country to Los Angeles in 2008, I lived in a rental off Fountain Avenue. Under the invariably sunny skies, I’d pass a set of tennis courts where there always seemed to be a clutch of handsome men volleying. Outdoor tennis in mid-winter, leisurely café visits and whooshing palms like parentheses around homes and businesses gave the city a jasmine-scented, otherworldly sheen. I was working as a travel journalist, and thought any moment I’d be called back to snowy New York to file a story, because this town seemed to be nothing but one big subtropical resort. How could this be real life? It was too gorgeous.
Now 17 years later, I’ve never left, even as mudslides threatened one home and wildfires another. 2025 has been a heartache of a year for so many of us in Los Angeles, lives lost and entire neighborhoods destroyed. I want to remind myself and everyone I see that, to paraphrase Hemingway, the land is a fine place and worth the fighting for. To that end, here, in no particular order, is your assignment: Take yourself away from the chores/office hours/child care (take the kids along) and visit one of these Los Angeles locales, date nights and delights. Because I’m doubling down on my civic love, and I think you want to, also.