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17 Toys for Kids with Autism, According to Occupational Therapists, Teachers and Parents

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Shopping for toys can be tough—you want something that will keep your kid entertained first and foremost, but ideally you’d also like a plaything that will contribute to their development. And for kids with autism, there may be additional considerations that need to be taken into account, as these children often have different developmental, sensory and safety needs. So what toys are best for them? We spoke with three occupational therapists, a behavioral analyst and a parenting educator to get the scoop. Here, they use their expertise to talk about what to look for when shopping and share their top toys for kids with autism that can address sensory, sleep and developmental needs (and are also just really fun to play with).

Whether it's a soft plushie ideal for bedtime (like HUGIMALS Charlie the Puppy) or a toy for practicing fine motor skills (like Fat Brain Toys Klickity), our expert-approved picks have plenty of great options.

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The Best Toys for Kids with Autism at a Glance

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Great On-the-Go Toy

Squigz Starter Set

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Easiest to Clean Up

Kinetic Sand

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3

Great for All Ages

Goonidy Pilates Ball

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4

Great for Calm and Relaxation

Vivere Cotton Hammock

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5

For a Calming Sensory Experience

PLAYABLE Art Ball

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Meet the Experts

How I Chose the Best Toys for Kids with Autism

To select the toys on this list, I asked our experts to recommend items that they have either used with their patients or believe would be good picks, based on their experience working with children who have autism. I then researched each product and considered buyer reviews, age appropriateness and safety, looking for toys that would serve multiple age groups and cater to different needs.

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Great On-the-Go Toy

1. Squigz Starter Set

What We Like

  • bright colors
  • works with a variety of surfaces
  • multiple sizes

What We Don't Like

  • doesn't work on all surfaces
  • some reviewers say they only stick to surfaces for a short amount of time

Fat Brain Toys

“These suction cup toys are one of my go-to toys,” shares Usher. “They promote hand dexterity and strength, and they produce a simple cause-and-effect as they make a nice ‘pop’ sound when pulled off the surface.” These silicone suckers stick to smooth, flat surfaces, as well as to each other (hello, wobbly caterpillar!). Bright colors can help draw visual attention, and the toys also come in a variety of colors, as well as a spinning variety.

“We are working with an OT who brought them, and we loved them,” notes buyer Allie J. S. “They are great for hand strengthening, fine motor and just for fun. They are easy to stick together and aren’t too difficult to pull apart. They allow my child to be creative with utilizing hand-eye coordination skills and gaining hand strength.”

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 3+

Easiest to Clean Up

2. Kinetic Sand

Why We Love It

  • soothing sand
  • doesn’t dry out
  • can mold into any shape

We We Don't Love It

  • picks up dirt and dust easily

Kinetic Sand

Another toy Usher recommends is Kinetic Sand. As a sensory exploration toy, the squeezable sand gives a child the opportunity to interact with different textured materials, she explains. "The items allow for open-ended play in which the child can direct and build their own play schema. If your child is aversive to different textured items, their interaction with sensory items can be more positive when immersed in play.” This award-winning kit comes in a three-pound bag, with the option to upgrade and add a variety of tools. Kids will be able to experience the feeling of beach sand—without the mess (the sand is soft but sticks together), making it a favorite with parents, too.

“Kinetic sand provides a fun sensory experience for kids,” writes one happy customer. “The best part? It’s easy to clean! I’ve vacuumed this stuff up, no problem.”

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 3+

Great for All Ages

3. Goonidy Pilates Ball

Why We Love It

  • soft and flexible
  • durable
  • teaches balance and coordination

We We Don't Love It

  • inflating the ball can be tricky

Goonidy

Toys don’t have to be complicated—something Lauder likes to do is pull out a ball to engage her patients. “Working with a ball builds gross motor and visual motor coordination, but it can also help promote early learning skills such as joint attention through imitating what they are doing (drumming on the ball or rolling it) and expanding that play,” she explains. While many balls can work (she likes yoga balls, basketballs or tennis balls, for instance), we’re loving this Pilates ball that comes in myriad colors. The exterior is a smooth, soft and durable PVC, and withstands up to 700 pounds—meaning, no need to be extra gentle with this toy.

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 5+

Great for Calm and Relaxation

4. Vivere Cotton Hammock

What We Like

  • plenty of room for parent and child
  • low to the ground
  • fun colors

What We Don’t Like

  • requires a good amount of space to use

Vivere

While a hammock might not fall into the traditional toy category, according to Knight, it can be incredibly fun and calming for children with autism. “A hammock swing can encourage sensory integration and the gentle swinging motion can provide a calming input,” she explains. “This can be a great toy for a child, teen or adult with autism.” Vivere’s double hammock accommodates up to 450 pounds and comes with a steel stand and carrying bag. Hooks are easily adjustable, so you can hang the hammock at your desired height.

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 3+ with supervision

For a Calming Sensory Experience

5. PLAYABLE Art Ball

What We Love

  • fun colors
  • helps develop fine motor skills
  • smooth and polished wood finish

What We Don't Love

  • may pinch small fingers

Playable Art

Knight recommends the Playable Art Ball as a great sensory toy pick. Kids can experiment by twisting it into different shapes by rolling, scrunching and pushing. “This toy is great for developing fine motor skills, as well as providing a calming sensory experience,” she says. The ball features joints that glide seamlessly, making maneuverability easy. It can be arranged into a variety of shapes or taken apart and rearranged, encouraging creativity and problem solving.

“Such great sensory toy they can manipulate, also great for color recognition,” writes Amazon reviewer Natalie. “Soothing for children and adults with sensory issues, ADHD, ASD, [etc.].”

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 3+

Great for Structure and Organization

6. Play22 Train Set

What We Like

  • bright colors
  • easy magnetic couplings
  • variety of cars to mix-and-match

What We Don't Like

  • some reviewers say magnets could be stronger

Play22

Train sets are a childhood toy staple, and this wooden set boasts over 6,000 five-star reviews. “Train sets provide structure, familiarity and are easily organized in a way that is appealing for a child with autism,” notes Knight. This Play22 pick includes 12 pieces, from engines and coaches to cargos and tankers. Each can be connected to other cars via two end magnets.

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 3+
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Good value for money

7. Scented Dazzlin' Dough

What We Like

  • great for open-ended play
  • comes in lots of colors and scents

What We Don't Like

  • not so easy to clean up
  • hardens if you don't put lid back on

Hygloss

This colorful and scented play dough "promotes creativity, fine motor control and scent processing," says Hylton. And with each container filled with one pound of the stuff, you're getting a whopping six pounds of dough to work with, which should be plenty for all your kid's squishing, punching, rolling and molding needs. Made with natural food-grade ingredients, the dough contains no nuts, dairy, eggs, gelatin, latex, corn or wheat.

Fast Facts

  • Recommended age: 3+

Great for Teaching Cause-and-Effect

8. JOYIN Bubble Machine

What We Like

  • multiple colorways
  • non-toxic bubble solution

What We Don't Like

  • requires replacement bubbles when packs run out

Joyin

This two-pack bubble machine kit comes with two guns and bottles of bubbles for hours of playtime fun. Russo recommends toys like this because of the cause-and-effect aspect. It teaches children that they can control their environment, in addition to promoting social and emotional learning (not to mention, bubbles are just a whole lot of fun). “This category includes any type of interactive toy that responds to a child’s voice or touch with light sound and/or vibrations,” he elaborates, “As well as toys that have features to push, pull or spin.”

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 3+

For Practicing Fine Motor Skills and Coordination

9. Fat Brain Toys Klickity  

What We Like

  • bright colors
  • variety of textures and sounds

What We Don't Like

  • expensive for a non-open-ended toy

Fat Brain Toys

Another cause-and-effect toy Russo recommends is Klickity. The toy exposes children to a variety of sounds, movements and textures. By pushing, pulling, spinning and shaking, they’ll unlock different effects while practicing fine motor skills and coordination.

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 1 to 2 years old

For Learning About Shapes

10. Melissa & Doug Shape Sorting Cube

What We Like

  • easy to grip
  • variety of shapes
  • teaches problem solving and shape recognition

What We Don't Like

  • not rounded edges

Melissa & Doug

“I love shape sorters because they work on countless skills through a simple design,” Lauder says. “Children can learn shapes, colors and counting (just to name a few) while working on their fine motor skills and hand-eye coordination.” Melissa & Doug’s Shape Sorting Cube features 12 shapes and bright-colored cut-outs. When playtime is over, the shapes pack away neatly into the cube, which can sit tidily on a playroom shelf.

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 2 to 4 years old
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Great for budding engineers

11. The Learning Journey Techno Gears STEM Construction Set

What We Like

  • moves across floor once built
  • teaches mechanics and engineering

What We Don't Like

  • some say instructions are difficult to understand

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Here's another train set that gets high praise for its ability to provide hours of open-ended play, with the added bonus of helping older kids work on their problem-solving and engineering skills (once the product is built, the train moves across the floor powered by a real motor). Hylton is a fan of this 60-piece set and recommends this toy, saying it "promotes fine motor manipulation, collaboration and learning.”

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 6+

To Prepare for a Doctor’s Visit

12. Melissa & Doug Doctor’s Kit

What We Like

  • familiarizes kids with doctor’s office visits
  • comprehensive accessories to play with and explore

What We Don't Like

  • bag is flimsy

Melissa & Doug

Another thing Lauder likes to do with her patients is encourage pretend play. “I love using doctor’s kits or playing restaurant with my kids because it helps promote imagination and creativity. It can also be used as a playful way to prepare a child who is going to the doctor through use of similar tools,” she notes. This kit by Melissa & Doug includes 25 pieces, from a stethoscope and blood pressure cuff to a thermometer and reflex hammer. Everything can be conveniently stored away in the included tote bag. Reviewers noted that it helped their kids feel more comfortable at the pediatrician’s office, with Amazon buyer Kiersten writing, “My child hates going to the doctor. I got her this for Christmas and she’s been playing doctor with me. Once, we had to go back to the doctor and I said, ‘let them check your ears like you do to momma at home,’ and she did!”

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 3 to 6 years old

Great for Fidgety Fingers

13. Dimpl Pops

What We Like

  • bubbles in a variety of colors and sizes
  • tactile stimulation
  • calming

What We Don't Like

  • a little clunky to carry

Fat Brain Toys

“Sensory toys can be a great way to provide relief for kids sensitive to touch, sound, sight and even certain textures. These types of toys benefit children on the spectrum by helping them engage with their senses, provide feedback to their sensory systems and regulate their sensory needs,” notes Russo. One sensory toy he recommends is the Dimpl Pops board, which features 25 bubbles in a range of sizes and colors. “I got this for my autistic goddaughter, and she just loves it,” writes Amazon reviewer Michele. The silicone surfaces provide tactile stimulation and can aid in calmness and concentration.

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 3 to 10 years old

For Encouraging Imagination and Creativity

14. Melissa & Doug Diner Play Set

What We Like

  • complete kitchen accessories
  • realistic food

What We Don't Like

  • all plastic

Melissa & Doug

Another excellent pick for pretend play is this restaurant set that features 41 kitchen and cooking accessories, including a diner menu, a dry-erase marker and play money. With so many accessories, they’ll be running the diner in no time. Plus, it gives them an opportunity to role play in different scenarios. “My 4-year-old and I were big fans of this kit,” writes Amazon reviewer Rachu. “Very fun to roleplay being customers/staff at a restaurant. Great for building understanding on how to order foods (lots of menu options) and calculating prices/tips then paying for your order. He enjoyed both sides of the play, from customer to waiter/chef.”

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 3+

Most Variety of Experiences

15. Made by Me Sea Life Sensory Bin

What We Like

  • easy to clean
  • lots of ways to play

What We Don't Like

  • some reviewers complain that the lid doesn't shut properly

Made By Me

The other sensory toy Russo recommends is this bright and cheerful sensory bin. Suitable for kids over age 3, it gives them the opportunity to experience a variety of textures. In the box are expanding water beads, pebbles and play sand, plus shovels, molds and rollers to create different shapes. To shake things up, add water to the bin for some ocean-inspired fun.

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 3+
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Musical toy for littles

16. Piano Tunes Lights & Music Switch

What We Like

  • easy to use
  • comes with auto shut-off button
  • portable

What We Don't Like

  • older kids may not find it very engaging

The Learning Journey

Kids love making music and this easy-to-use piano features colorful buttons, bright lights, and an eight-note keyboard that plays familiar melodies and animal sounds. Hylton recommends this musical toy for little kids because it promotes creativity, auditory processing and visual processing. (It also comes with an auto shut-off button so you won't drain the battery in a single weekend.)

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 12 months+

Comforting Bedtime Companion

17. HUGIMALS Charlie the Puppy

What We Like

  • weighted pressure
  • developed to help manage stress and anxiety

What We Don't Like

  • pricey

Hugimals

HUGIMALS creates a line of weighted stuffed animals. Charlie the Puppy weighs 4.5 pounds and has a removable weight and washable exterior. Russo shares that weighted sleep aides can help relieve stress and offer comfort and are an ideal item to incorporate into the bedtime routine.  

“I got him because I have extremely bad anxiety, depression, ASD and many other issues,” writes Amazon reviewer Lisa. “I have a hard time coping some days, I don't sleep well. I have texture issues, so I need softer things to touch, and Charlie is so soft. He is just amazing straight out of the package.”

Fast Facts

  • Recommended Age: 2+

What Is Sensory Play—and Why Is it So Important?

“'Play' can be defined as any spontaneous activity, whether structured or unstructured, that provides enjoyment and amusement,” says Hylton. “Sensory play is a play that stimulates the senses (vision, hearing, taste, touch, proprioception, vestibular, smell) to promote curiosity, relaxation and further exploration of the world.” This type of play is important for all children, but there may be some particular benefits for children with autism. Per Hylton, “some children with autism may find sensory toys to be calming or exciting, depending on their perception of stimuli. Children with autism often struggle with restricted interests and repetitive behaviors, which limit their ability to play. Sensory play aims to engage the child through their senses to expose the body and brain to varied experiences. This can help the child learn “to engage in different forms of play including exploratory, constructive, symbolic and social.”

What to Look for in Toys for Autistic Kids

When selecting a toy, Lauder says she keeps in mind four things: developmental appropriateness, sensory stimuli, safety and level of interest.

  • Developmental appropriateness: “I usually start with developmental appropriateness, which is different from chronological age, because while most engagement in play assists with development, I want to make sure the child is getting the most out of the toy,” she explains. “For example, if a child’s play and fine motor skills are around the developmental level of an 18-month-old, I would be more likely to suggest toys that have a cause-and-effect component, versus a doctor’s play kit, which would lean more towards 3- to 4- year-olds.”
  • Sensory stimuli: Russo notes that sensory toys can provide children who are sensitive to touch with the ability to help them engage with their senses in a manageable way. Good sensory toys will provide kids’ sensory systems with feedback and allow them to self-regulate. “Every child takes in sensory stimuli differently and some toys may be overwhelming for them (think too loud, too bright, or too many moving parts), or some toys could be overstimulating which can cause disruptions in regulation,” Lauder elaborates.
  • Safety: As for the safety aspect, she also advises keeping in mind the fact that children diagnosed with autism often have a tendency for placing items in their mouth. Thus, it’s best to choose toys that don’t have an abundance of small, individual pieces.
  • Level of interest: If it feels daunting, don’t panic, says Knight. Shop as you would for any other child—by considering what they enjoy and any skills they need to develop. “Remember, when you are looking for toys, it’s supposed to be fun,” she says. “You want to look for toys that engage a child with autism in the same way you would look for a toy for a neurotypical child. In fact, many of the toys that you would buy for a neurotypical child, are the same toys that a child with autism would enjoy (blocks, balls, stuffed animals, fidget spinners, cars and trucks).”

Additional Experts

  • Taylor Lauder, MSOT, OTR/L is an occupational therapist at Springtide Child Development, an autism center that provides integrative treatment plans including Applied Behavioral Analysis, speech/occupational therapy and diagnostic services.
  • Kate Usher OTD, OTR has been an occupational therapist at Durand School since 2018, with prior clinical experience in a long-term care for medically fragile children, New Jersey’s Early Intervention System and public and specialized school settings. Durand School is a private school in Woodbury, New Jersey, that serves students aged 5 to 21 who experience autism and learning/developmental disabilities.

Frequently Asked Questions

What's the difference between hyper-sensitive and hypo-sensitive children?

Children with sensory challenges experience either over-sensitivity (hypersensitivity) or under-sensitivity (hyposensitivity). Children who are hypersensitive are "avoiders" and easily overstimulated notes the Child Mind Institute, adding that this can translate into things like refusing to brush their teeth or have their faces painted. The organization also notes that these kids may appear clumsy and often cannot sense how much force they're applying to objects or people.

Meanwhile, those with hyposensitivity may experience little to no levels of sensory feedback. “Children who are hyposensitive crave input; they love jumping, bumping and crashing activities, as well as deep pressure such as that provided by tight bear hugs,” says the Child Mind Institute, also noting that “grade-schoolers who are hyposensitive may display 'negative behaviors' including what looks like hyperactivity, when in fact they’re seeking input.”

To help parents determine if their child’s behavior indicates serious sensory issues, the Child Mind Institute has created a detailed sensory checklist that covers responses to different types of input.

What are the best types of toys for nonverbal autistic kids?

“Regardless of the verbal abilities of the child, the best toys should be: age and developmental stage appropriate, hold the child’s attention, safe, stimulate learning, and used in different ways throughout childhood,” says Hylton.

On that note, the expert tells us that the best types of toys fit into one of the following categories: active/gross motor (like bikes, balls and jump ropes), manipulatives (puzzles, beads, blocks), pretend play (dolls, houses, stuffed animals), creative (crafts, instruments) and learning (games, science kits, language development).  

Are there any toys autistic kids should avoid playing with?

The number one thing to keep in mind when selecting a toy for a child (whether they have autism or not) is safety. “Children should avoid playing with toys that would be considered unsafe based on the severity of their disability," says Hylton. "For example, if an autistic child is unable to distinguish between edible and non-edible objects, they should not use toys which have small manipulatives or toxic materials (i.e. glue), unless they are closely supervised.” The expert also cautions that children should avoid playing with toys that are significantly below their developmental and cognitive level since this may in fact hinder their growth.   


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