17 Couples Retreats Near NYC That Make for the Perfect Weekend Getaway

• Distance from NYC: about 2 hours and 15 minutes
• Price Per Night: from about $280
• Amenities: pool, sauna, restaurant and bar, garden, ice rink

Located in Hunter right near the popular ski resort, Scribner’s Catskill Lodge is one of the most glamorous hotels in the Catskills. Scribner’s, which originally opened in the ’60s, was recently restored into a trendy lodge with Brooklyn-meets-Alpine vibes. While the Catskills have an exciting restaurant scene, don’t miss a meal at Prospect, the hotel’s on-site restaurant, which serves delicious cocktails and rustic fare using locally sourced ingredients. I also love the outdoor firepits, perfect for making s’mores and watching the snow fall. While you might not want to leave the hotel, there’s plenty to do around Hunter, like skiing, exploring Kaaterskill Falls and antiques shopping in downtown Tannersville. The property is also dog-friendly, for those couples whose idea of a romantic getaway includes Fido.

13 Scribner Hollow Rd., Hunter, New York; scribnerslodge.com

• Distance from NYC: about 2 hours and 5 minutes
• Price Per Night: from about $625
• Amenities: full-service spa, Reiki, sound healing, guided meditation, yoga, Pilates, restaurant

A trip to Japan may be a bit too far for a weekend getaway. Instead, you can always book a four-day trip to Shou Sugi Ban House, a Japanese-inspired wellness retreat that pulls reference from the ryokans of rural Japan. For couples seeking relaxation, self-care and spiritual healing, this luxury Hamptons property is for you. Each of the 13 studios are light-drenched, minimalist and neutral with wood-framed beds and soaking tubs. Each stay is complemented by a personalized nutrition, meditation and spa program. Couples can also enjoy yoga or floating meditation classes, cooking workshops, beach walks and more.

337 Montauk Hwy., Water Mill, New York; shousugibanhouse.com

• Distance from NYC: about 5 hours
• Price Per Night: from about $550
• Amenities: restaurant and bar, full-service spa, pool, guided beach horseback rides, movie nights

After her wedding in 2022, Audience Development Director Mary D’Alessio wanted a honeymoon that was closer to home, what with the uncertainty of covid at the time. The couple landed on White Barn Inn and was immediately over the moon. “From the moment we checked in we knew we were in for a lovely escape. The staff were all so friendly and helpful (easy to call for a ride from the beach or get a recommendation for where to grab a bite downtown) and the rooms were luxurious and had quintessential New England seaside charm. This is a place that thinks about the details—every night there were little local treats with notes about the local vendor at our bedside. The pool was lovely and we spent most days ordering lobster cobb salads while lounging by the pool before grabbing some beach chairs and taking a short bike ride down to the beach. The fine dining was some of the best I have ever experienced. I know it sounds super basic, but I still tell people about the tomato tartare. You’re truly missing out if you don’t book a table at the restaurant.”

37 Beach Ave., Kennebunk, Maine; aubergeresorts.com/whitebarninn

• Distance from NYC: about 1 hour and 50 minutes
• Price Per Night: from about $350
• Amenities: outdoor double hot showers, claw foot bathtub, fire pit, outdoor kitchen and grill, hiking trails

For adventure-seekers whose idea of romance includes spending time in the Great Outdoors, check out this unique Airbnb located on 12 acres of gorgeous wilderness. After a busy day of cuddling the alpacas on site and hiking on the six mile rails-to-trails path across the street, couples can enjoy unwinding by gazing up at the stars in their very own sci-fi geo dome. Per one reviewer, “The grounds are beautiful, and well-maintained. Bathrooms are clean, shower has hot water and perfect pressure, there’s a full kitchen, plenty of privacy and a lot to do nearby. Can’t want to stay there again!” Safe to say, this is “glamping” at its best.

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• Distance from NYC: about 2 hours and 30 minutes
• Price Per Night: from $299
• Amenities: restaurant and bar, hiking, sauna, fire pit, bikes

“If you’re looking for an idyllic weekend upstate that's plucked right out of a Hallmark movie, this is it,” raves Executive Managing Editor Catrina Yohay. “We stayed in a king suite in the main house and loved its stylish, no-frills, Scandi vibe. Plus, none of the rooms have TVs which really allowed us to unplug and spend uninterrupted, quality time together. The property as a whole feels cozy and inviting. Each morning we’d start the day with a freshly made breakfast complete with scrambled eggs, bacon and mini muffins. After a day of hiking and beer tasting at the local taproom (a stop at West Kill Brewing is a must, to this day it’s still my husband’s favorite brewery) we’d cap off each night with a craft cocktail at the Eastwind bar and lounge while casually playing chess next to a roaring fire. Also, it’s dog-friendly, a major win in my book. We can’t wait to go back and bring our pup along!”

5088 Rt. 23, Windham, New York; eastwindny.com

• Distance from NYC: about 2 hours and 50 minutes
• Price Per Night: from about $880
• Amenities: full-service spa, restaurant and bar, wine and food classes, surfing, croquet, yachting

For couples seeking a peaceful beach escape, consider Ocean House, a romantic beachfront property in quaint Rhode Island. Easily accessible by Amtrak, the Ocean House is not just a summer destination. In the colder months, you can cozy up and experience the beauty of New England, and warm up with some fondue at Fondue Village, an adorable private dining experience housed in a gondola that will not disappoint. Listening to the crashing waves of the Atlantic from your hotel room is a highlight here, as is booking a detoxing mud wrap or deep tissue massage at the on-site OH! Spa. You can and should also explore the neighboring towns of Newport and Bristol, and chow down on chowder and lobster rolls at one of the many nearby seafood shacks or splurge on a multi-course dinner at Coast, the hotel’s upscale restaurant.

1 Bluff Ave., Watch Hill, Rhode Island; oceanhouseri.com

• Distance from NYC: about 2 hours and 15 minutes
• Price Per Night: from about $545
• Amenities: sauna, yoga classes, tennis courts, pool, restaurant and bar

This country inn in the Hudson Valley is the perfect mix of laid-back and luxurious. The original Troutbeck dates back to the 17th century, and over time it served as a retreat for big names ranging from Ernest Hemingway to Theodore Roosevelt, not to mention other dreamers, creatives and poets. Romantics will want to snag The Dunham Suite, named for the windows that overlook Dunham Creek. It boasts a four-poster king bed and a swanky bathroom with a freestanding soaking tub and separate rain show, not to mention heated floors. Be sure to book a table at Troubeck’s delicious farm-to-table restaurant for dinner or brunch (served on Sundays). And if you’re looking to break a sweat, there are tennis courts you can rent as well as daily wellness classes held in the Pole Barn.

515 Leedsville Rd., Amenia, New York; troutbeck.com

• Distance from NYC: about 2 hours and 30 minutes
• Price Per Night: from about $300
• Amenities: restaurant and bar, hiking, claw foot bathtubs

“If you combine the words ‘rustic’ and ‘luxury’ you’ll get the vibe of Urban Cowboy,” says Senior Commerce Editor Stephanie Maida. “I felt like I stepped into my Yellowstone dreams in the bar and lounge area, which is decked out in Western textiles, wooden accents and even an antler chandelier. The Dining Room (aka the hotel restaurant), is so romantic. It’s dimly lit with candles flickering, creating the coziest atmosphere. The food (which is seasonal and locally sourced) was also a highlight.” There are multiple accommodation types, including rooms within the hotel as well as freestanding cabins and chalets if you want something more private. Maida adds, “I visited in the winter, so my favorite part was the dramatic stone fireplace at the center, which me and my companion cozied up to with cocktails in hand.”

37 Alpine Rd, Big Indian, New York; urbancowboy.com/catskills

• Distance from NYC: about 2 hours and 50 minutes
• Price Per Night: from about $695
• Amenities: workout classes, full-service spa, fire pits, private beach, pools

“I’ve stayed at Gurneys both in the summer and winter, and I’ll be honest, the latter is the way to go, especially for an intimate couples weekend,” says Maida. “While the Montauk resort is a favorite during peak Hamptons season (thanks to its beachfront cabanas, lively crowds and frequent events), it’s so much more relaxing and serene in the fall/winter off-season. I loved snuggling up with a coffee on my private balcony overlooking the waves and taking in the moody atmosphere of the beach. And there’s still plenty to do. I caught a complimentary workout class in the morning, then spent the day getting pampered at the Seawater Spa, which offers facials, massages and access to facilities like saunas and thermal baths. In the evenings, the al fresco patio lights up with fire pits and heaters so you can sip wine under the stars with the sound of the ocean serving as your soundtrack. Throw in a pasta dinner at Scarpetta Beach and you’ve got the perfect romantic weekend.”

290 Old Montauk Hwy., Montauk, New York; gurneysresorts.com

• Distance from NYC: about 1 hour and 45 minutes
• Price Per Night: from about $800
• Amenities: full-service spa, 140 acres to explore

If you’re looking to get back in touch with nature as well as your partner, Yohay highly recommends this stunning update getaway. “Secluded and submerged in nature—what more can you ask for? I stayed at Wildflower Farms with a group (which was a blast), but while there we saw so many couples that were clearly on their babymoon. Between the private cabins, gorgeous spa, relaxing atmosphere and proximity to NYC, it really is the perfect trip to take to celebrate a major milestone. I loved exploring the 140-acre grounds on foot, meandering through the rows of cabins while enjoying the mountain backdrop off in the distance. My favorite morning began with some of the best olive oil pancakes I’ve ever had at their main restaurant Clay and ended with a trip to the chicken coop to feed the hens (P.S. they love being held!). The service is also unbeatable with each staff member going above and beyond. Sidebar: I had a love affair with the strawberry jam they use in the restaurants and asked if they had jars available for purchase. The kind staffer told me no but that he would see what they could do. Later that day, I came back to my cabin to find three complimentary jars of jam with a personalized note...I mean come on! Top-tier service, without a doubt.”

2702 Main St., Gardiner, New York; aubergeresorts.com/wildflower-farms

• Distance from NYC: about 4 hours and 15 minutes
• Price Per Night: from about $315
• Amenities: picnic supplies, yoga classes, bikes, private fireplace and balcony

A total fantasy from start to finish, any couple staying at the Inns of Aurora is likely to book their return visit before checking out. The luxe, boutique compound of inns is spread across the town of Aurora, a tiny enclave on Lake Cayuga in the Finger Lakes region that—coupled with its peaceful, natural setting and spaces to cozy up and unwind in—finds itself at the center of many couples’ wellness-centric getaways. Itineraries of said trips may include mindfulness hikes led by a resident Outdoorsman, taking in a candlelight yoga session or partaking in a tea blending class.

Complimentary amenities available when you check in include a telescope for nighttime stargazing, a picnic cooler and blanket for a snack time or meal in nature, bikes and helmets for use, plus access to games and puzzles, easels and watercolor paints for outside painting adventures. Not free, but also great, are the nearby wine tastings at Treleaven Wines, Bright Leaf Vineyard and Long Point Winery, an obvious choice for couples looking to explore more, though your innkeeper can also offer up a tasting if you feel like staying closer to your room (which you likely will). Each guest accommodation is handsomely appointed in unique, historical furnishings with a private fireplace and private balcony.

391 Main St, Aurora, New York; innsofaurora.com

• Distance from NYC: about 3 hours and 45 minutes
• Price Per Night: from about $755
• Amenities: full-service spa, restaurant and bar, live jazz every Sunday

This hotel, a historic Newport summer home turned inn, is a member of Relais & Chateaux, meaning you and bae can expect a truly customized experience, with the finest service, quality, food and attention to detail during a stay here. A great year-round destination, in the quieter winter months, couples will want to cozy up near crackling fireplaces and take pleasure in Castle Hill Inn’s selection of fine wines by golden candlelight. Dreamy, right? Beach walks are a must, too, regardless of season. Your room—either in the main house or in one of their beach cottages—also offers panoramic views of the Atlantic Ocean and Narragansett Bay so you can snuggle up and enjoy the surroundings right from bed.

Right now, Castle Hill Inn is also enticing visitors with a “Retreat to Romance” package, which includes a two-night stay, complimentary gourmet breakfast and the Inn’s exclusive afternoon tea each day (which you can currently take from inside your room, too), a bottle of rosé bubbly, fresh flowers and chocolate dipped strawberries upon arrival. Did we mention there’s also a three-course dinner for two? Not too shabby.

590 Ocean Drive, Newport, Rhode Island; castlehillinn.com

• Distance from NYC: about 1 hour
• Price Per Night: from about $270
• Amenities: live music, restaurant and bar, pool, wellness classes

This stunning new hotel opened up just a few years ago, so if you’re looking for an under-the-radar spot close to home, this is the place to be. It’s less than 90 minutes from Times Square via subway, or even quicker in an Uber, car, or by ferry. Vibrant, stylish and in the heart of one of New York City’s most beloved and evolving neighborhoods, Rockaway Beach, the hotel takes cues from the area’s surfing history, and provides many luxe experiences along the way, like an infrared sauna and a gallery-like art collection you and your S.O. can take advantage of (in a considered and socially-distanced way, of course). The property is also enticing couple staycations with movie screening nights, winter surfing (it’s a thing!), live music, and fitness and wellness classes; as a bonus, it’s also one of the more budget-friendly options on this list.

108-10 Rockaway Beach Drive, Rockaway Park, New York; therockawayhotel.com

• Distance from NYC: about 5 hours and 30 minutes
• Price Per Night: from about $2,650
• Amenities: boats, bar, pool table, fireplace lounges, lake views

You’ll know you’ve arrived at this sprawling Adirondack camp by the unique log garden gate. Originally built as a woodsy retreat for the Rockefellers, it’s private and intimate with just 11 rustic-luxe rooms, each with its own cozy wood-burning fireplace. You can bet on a romantic and magic-filled weekend for any couple staying here.

The Point Resort is set on 75 secluded acres along the shoreline of Upper Saranac Lake, where each of the rooms are housed in one of four distinctly beautiful, original log buildings, each with a slightly different panoramic lake view. The decor alone will instantly get you in a snuggly mood, and the stylish private baths featuring original brass and chrome fixtures will make you want to slip on a robe, grab a glass of bubbly and relax. “The setting is surreal, the food and drink are absolutely top notch (it is a Relais & Chateaux property, after all), the service is so thoughtful and flawless, and the experience as a whole is something you simply cannot replicate,” Jordan Brady, luxury travel advisor and founder of Journey Bound Travel Co. tells me.

222 Beaverwood Road, Saranac Lake, New York; thepointresort.com

• Distance from NYC: about 2 hours and 15 minutes
• Price Per Night: from about $311
• Amenities: outdoor hot tub, full-service spa, yoga and wellness classes, shops, dogs welcome

There are more than a few things that will make you fall in love with Emerson Resort & Spa (and each other, all over again) during a trip here: For one, all of the rooms have serious soaking tubs, big enough for a romantic bath à deux. Handsome rooms, like the Imperial Suite, also have their own individual fireplaces, and boast large living rooms and a lofted bedroom area so you can really stretch out.

Poet Ralph Waldo Emerson might be the inspiration for the hotel’s name, but things are decidedly more luxurious today in this part of the Catskills than they were in the late 1850s when he traveled throughout the wilderness of New York State with his cronies. What remains, however, is a beautiful, pristine 20-acre setting with plenty to entertain even the most fickle of lovers: Complimentary bikes; a legit spa with its own outdoor hot tub (which is currently operating under New York State guidelines); spots to chill out and take in the views at nearby Esopus River; the Insta-worthy Ashokan Reservoir, which provides water to the city; and much, much more. Bonus: It’s also a very quick, 5-minute drive to the Phoenicia Diner which you’ve been dying to eat at, too.

5340 Rt. 28, Mount Tremper, New York; emersonresort.com

• Distance from NYC: about 3 hours and 15 minutes
• Price Per Night: from about $421
• Amenities: private beach, private terrace, hot tub, restaurant and bar, yoga, guided meditations

Sound View is set on the Long Island Sound at the tip of the North Fork. Its bones are that of a golden era motel, but it’s been totally renovated and outfitted in modern, nautical-inspired decor which will encourage you and yours to relax and lie low, spending QT in your ocean-view room that’s just steps from a private beach. Guests can also level up in the property’s recently renovated two bedroom suite, which features a wood-fired cedar hot tub overlooking the water, plus its own private terrace, full living/dining area and kitchen.

But for those seeking stimulation, the property is close to dozens of wineries, quaint farms, boutique breweries like Greenport Harbor Brewery and lots of small shops. At Sound View, there’s The Halyard, a seafood-focused restaurant currently open by reservation only, and the town of Greenport also boasts great dining options, from local oysters at Little Creek to shareable small plates at Noah’s.

58775 County Rd. 48, Greenport, New York; soundviewgreenport.com

• Distance from NYC: about 2 hours and 15 minutes
• Price Per Night: from about $200
• Amenities: delicious breakfasts, pool, bar and restaurant, fire pit nearby hiking and golf, pets allowed

“Tucked away in the Catskills, this Victorian boutique hotel is so cozy and romantic!” raves Jillian Quint, PureWow’s editor-in-chief. “There are little nooks everywhere for reading, canoodling or grabbing a quick game of checkers. Although honestly, when I was there mid-winter, all I wanted to do was cozy up by the wood-burning stove.” For guests visiting in the warmer months, be sure to set aside time to lounge by the pool during the day, and cozy up by the fire pit at night. There’s also plenty to do in the surrounding area, including hikes of all levels, golfing, skiing and multiple charming historic museums.

6629 NY-23A, Tannersville, NY; hotellilien.com