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The Surprising (and Totally Casual) Way Kate Middleton Met Brother James’s Wife for the First Time

Spoiler alert: It involves an oversized shirt

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Meeting your partner's family is usually a well-planned event, like dinner or maybe a wedding, but for Kate Middleton’s brother, James Middleton, things were a little more… unexpected.

In an excerpt from his book Meet Ella: The Dog Who Saved My Life, James shared the hilariously awkward way his then-girlfriend, Alizée Thevenet, accidentally met the Princess of Wales, Prince William and their kids—Prince George, 11, Princess Charlotte, 9, and Prince Louis, 6—for the first time.

It all went down after James and Alizée made a spur-of-the-moment stop at the Middleton family home after attending a wedding.

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"We let ourselves in and tiptoed around in the dark, not wanting to wake anyone, then caught a few hours’ sleep before I’m woken at 7:30 a.m. by giggling at the bedroom door,” James wrote, according to an excerpt published by Daily Mail. “It’s George and Charlotte, my nephew and niece.”

He went on, “Alizée is still sound asleep, so I gently shush the children and we go downstairs where Catherine and William are drinking their early morning tea in the kitchen. I’m about to take a cup up to Alizée when she appears at the kitchen door. She has just got out of bed, her hair still tousled, and she’s wearing one of my shirts.”

Yup, Alizée’s first meeting with the Prince and Princess of Wales was while she was rocking one of James’s oversized shirts. But she handled it like a pro, totally unfazed by the situation.

“She just greets everyone warmly, as if it’s not remotely unusual to be meeting her boyfriend’s sister and brother-in-law for the first time wearing only an oversized man’s shirt. ‘Hello,’ she says, offering her hand, and with no awkwardness at all, we’re soon all chatting, and the children are asking all kinds of cheeky questions at 100 miles per hour," he remembered.

To top it off, later that day, Kate and James’s parents, Carole and Michael Middleton, came home and Alizée ended up meeting the entire family. Safe to say, she passed the test with flying colors.

“I get a special squeeze from Catherine, who whispers in my ear, ‘She’s just great,’” he wrote. “Mum’s warm smile tells me she agrees. All my stars have aligned: Alizée is perfect for me, and my family adores her.”

Fast forward to 2021, and James and Alizée tied the knot. They welcomed their first child together in October 2023.

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