9 Wedding Trends You're About to See Everywhere in 2023

According to Pinterest Trends, pinners are seeking out petite bouquets in place of wild, abundant arrangements we’ve seen in years past. These chic handhelds are made up of dainty blooms, like lily of the valley, lilac, astilbe and lavender. And while pared-back florals look elegant, they’re also practical: Wedding dresses aren’t cheap, so why not make yours the focal point as you step down the runway aisle toward your beloved?

The wedding couple takes center stage for the entire reception, but in 2023, we’re kicking guests off the dance floor for the final song. After months of planning, many newlyweds are astonished when their wedding day speeds by. To take in the magic of this milestone, partners are closing out the festivities with a private dance. That’s right, everyone but the photographer walks out of the room so you two can reflect on the day and/or gossip about your families. 

2023 will be the year of the blurry wedding photo, one that captures the dizzying bliss you felt on the big day. As social platforms are trading perfection for authenticity (looking at you, BeReal), we can expect wedding photography to tag along. Albums will have an editorial, documentary-style look and feel, says Diana Romo, founder and lead planner at Diana Romo Weddings. “The style nixes poses and focuses on imperfections,” she says, as more couples are favoring “minimal direction or interruptions.” Think: a candid shot of your mom chasing a ring-bearing toddler or a slanted portrait of your friends sipping whiskey at the bar.

No crunchy hair gel here. Alison Semmler, owner and lead planner at Lifestyle Maven Events, tells us clients are ditching overly formal hairstyles and requesting an elevated version of their everyday style and texture. “Many of my clients want to still look like themselves and feel comfortable on their wedding day, which is why they’ll choose a sleek blowout, high-pony or beachy waves rather than an updo with hundreds of bobby pins and hair extensions.” As people who have attempted to pry pins out of our hair at 2 a.m., we wholeheartedly endorse this trend.

Writing a sweet note for the new spouses is a classic gesture. But there are plenty of fresh ways to say good luck without the pen and paper (how Shakespearian!). Over on #WeddingTok, users are coming up with creative takes on guest books, like voice messages recorded with old-fashioned telephones, greetings written on the back of polaroid photos or well wishes signed on wooden Jenga pieces (for the couple who got really into board games during the pandemic).

Where millennials go, houseplants follow. So it’s no surprise plant parents are adorning their wedding venues with potted plant decor, from English ivy climbing up your ceremonial canopy to monstera hanging out by the dancefloor. Along with wanting a more sustainable choice than cut flowers, couples love the greenhouse oasis live plants cultivate. And a money tree situated next to the donation box is sure to bring some good luck, right?

While tradition dictates that partners separate until the ceremony, modern couples are rewriting their wedding day itineraries and getting ready together. Hanging out with your S.O. before the main event can ease your nerves, offer time for private vows—and allow you to squeeze in another first dance rehearsal.