My Foolproof Hack for Getting the Perfect Photo from a Stranger

While it would certainly be convenient, most of us are not walking around with our own personal photographers. So, what do you do when you’re on a Disney magic cruise or a once-in-a-lifetime trip to Milan and you desperately want your picture taken? You ask a stranger. Then, you pray that they have some modicum of good aesthetic sense and leave the rest up to the gods that control hair, lighting, wind and makeup. Honestly…that’s the worst possible plan. But don’t fret—there’s another way! Here’s my secret to great photos when I’m at the mercy of a stranger: Take their picture first.

Here’s how I approach this tip. First, I find the location I want for the photograph. After I’ve got a volunteer photographer (more on that below), I position them in the frame and say, “I’m going to take an example photograph.” 

After you’ve gotten a shot you like, PAUSE. Nobody move. In order for copy+paste to work, you must note where your photographer is standing, and note where you’re standing. Have them come over to you and place them in the exact spot. Show them the picture and tell them you want the shot exactly as shown. Then, go place yourself where they were standing. Perfection!

Admittedly, this tip requires your stranger to have some patience, so choose your photographer wisely. In other words, don’t ask the mom passing by with a screaming toddler. But the solo traveler slowly wandering around while snapping photos herself? She may be just the ticket. (And it’s worth noting that this strategy works on everyone, not just strangers. Uncle Chuck, who’s always squatting and shooting your face at an upwards angle could definitely stand to benefit.)

This is an extra step that you can incorporate if you think your photographer is game (and has the time). Ask them to take a test shot so you can see how your hair, clothes, makeup, etc. look and use the opportunity to make any adjustments. This is also the time to make technical fixes to exposure, crop and angle, too. After that, it’s lights, camera, action.